How to Use Your Intuition in Love
Let’s face it shall we? When you’re looking for love, or have fallen under its intoxicating spell, you can often miss the extraordinary signals and messages that give you clues as to whether you are on the path of romantic bliss, or on the fast track to heartbreak.
Learning how to use your intuition in love will help your journey towards love and romance be not only fun, but also spiritually enriching; because when you learn to slow down and tune into your inner guidance system you will be able to know the truth about your love interest, as well as learn to understand people and relationships in new, and enlightening ways.
Are you interested in learning how to use your intuition in love? Here are four ways to point you in the right direction.
Four Common Intuitions in Love and How to Use Them
Intuitive insight is available to you in many forms. If you want to learn to use this insight to your best advantage you must learn to tune into those signs and signals as they present themselves.
Physical Sensations.
Your physical body is very adept at providing you with necessary signals that are there to protect and warn you when something just isn’t quite right about either a person or situation. These signals often present themselves as “goosebumps” on your skin when perhaps you’re either on a date, or talking to your romantic interest on the telephone. It can also present itself in the form of your hair standing up on the back of your neck when someone creepy responds to your dating profile, or perhaps offers to buy you a drink.
How to use it in romantic relationships.
The body cannot lie. Paying attention to your body’s response to the environment around you is a quick and accurate way to gauge the potential for a healthy relationship. Often referred to as a “gut reaction” your body has the ability to alert you, and protect you. The next time you sense that your body is trying to alert you to something, take a few minutes to tune into it. Are your shoulders tense? Do have a knot in your stomach? Or do you feel energized and excited? Learning to read your body signals will give you immediate access to an entirely new type of information. More importantly, you will have a powerful gauge that will allow you to avoid getting involved in unhealthy, unbalanced relationships at the onset.
Premonitions.
This is when you pick up intuitive flashes of insight about a person or situation. This may be in the form of mental pictures, smells, sounds, or a feeling in your body. For example, you feel “led” to call your significant other at work to ask if you can meet at an earlier time. Then later you find that there was a shooting outside the restaurant at the very time you would’ve originally met. Or perhaps you were thinking about your special other and then he or she either calls you or send you a text at that exact time.
How to use it in romantic relationships.
Your intuitive network of information works in conjunction with your body and brain. Pay attention to the mental pictures, sounds, and inner urges you receive and train yourself to notice them by writing them down. The more you practice tuning in, the better you will get. In new or growing relationships this will go a long way in not only giving you the 411 on your lover’s health and safety, but also as to whether or not he or she is being faithful to you.
Empathy.
Intuitive empathy, or Clairsentience, is when you’re able to pick up a vibe or feeling about a person or situation. Have you ever got a creepy feeling about someone standing next you? Or have you ever entered a room that “feels” as if an argument occurred? These are common examples of Clairsentience.
How to use it in romantic relationships.
Learning to read other people’s feelings will go a long way in improving your romantic relationships; but there is one important caveat. Don’t “take on” those moods and emotions as your own. The best way to do this is to stop and ask yourself this simple question: Is this me, or something else? For example, your boyfriend comes home and is tense, and you feel something is off, and then you yourself become tense. Instead of personalizing the motion you’re feeling (such as thinking that he is mad at you); or thinking those emotions you are feeling are your own, stop and ask yourself – “Is this me feeling this, or is it something else?” If it is not your emotions you will feel a sense of peace. Asking this question often it will allow you to be not only understanding of your partner’s emotional states, but will also enable you to draw your partner out into conversation. Empathetic communications deepen and enhance love partnerships in meaningful ways.
Déjà vu.
This is when you feel as if you have either said something, or have done something before when you know that you haven’t. This includes meeting new people and having the feeling that you have met them before.
How to use it in romantic relationships.
Instead of dismissing a déjà vu experience as something strange, talk about it with a friend or write it down. The experience can be an indicator that your romantic relationship has a making for long-term bliss, or it may be giving you the signal to take a step back and reflect before proceeding into relationship that you may later regret.
How do you use your intuition in love? Let me know by commenting below.
